Being You!!

Do you know who you are? Have you lived your life living up to other?s expectations at the cost of your true self? Well I have???.and I SAY?. BE YOU. It is time to stop the madness and be YOU!! People will never respect you if you live your life as someone else. Being YOU is living a truthful life. It is a life of peace for there is no pretense of a false reality. The energy you spend being someone else can best be used in developing your true self. It is far more rewarding when you are working on YOU, than feeding the monster created by others and accepted by YOU. I have a >>>WARNING>>>people are not going to like you BEING YOU. They would rather prefer the fake than the real. Why is this? It is because they have developed a comfort level with the fake you. How sad, even to the point where people become so familiar with the fa?ade, embracing it so that they feel they have the right and license to tell you how you should act and feel in various circumstances. They cannot imagine you acting any different. Again. STOP THE MADNESS and stand up for the REAL YOU, no matter the cost for in the long run it is worth it. Do you need courage to BE YOU? FIND IT, EMBRACE IT and DEVELOP IT so that you can break FREE and BE YOU. Chomp Chomp!!!

Closure

Do you sleep well at night? Does your life seem to be at a stand still. If your answer is yes to either of these question consider this: You may need to find closure from your past in order to move forward. We all have made bad decisions in our past. Decisions that have hurt others as well as yourself. You must find closure in order to embrace the present and capture the future. We are never too old to find closure. Why don't we find closure? Is it because we want to remember life as it was, or maybe we are still trying to find meaning in our past. There are many reasons why we do not pursue closure, in my case it was simply fear of being honest with myself. When you come face to face with your past you realize your mistakes and how those choices changed your life. Closure mean that you have let the past go as it was, because the way it was, is surely gone.

Closure is an opportunity for something new. Things that you might not have noticed before, may look like real possibilities now. Closure will give you the chance to stop looking back and begins the process of looking forward to the future. Closure enables you to appreciate the positive things the future holds for you. The future is unknown and has the potential to be great once you find closure! Close the door on the past and open another one on your future. Chomp Chomp!!

Freedom Of Speech

Is there really such a thing as "Freedom Of Speech"? Just the other day I was thinking to myself can I say whatever I want to say whenever I want to say it. The truth is yes I can. Freedom of Speech is the freedom to speak freely without censorship or limitation; but here is the deal, you have to face the consequences of your speech. Freedom of speech does not mean you can say what the want to say without facing the consequences. There are laws that protect the populace from those who would speak words at the expense of others. Laws such as "Slander" (an untruthful spoken statement about a person that harms the person's reputation or standing in the community), or how about "Verbal Abuse"(the use of words to cause harm to the person being spoken to). Verbal abuse may consist of shouting, insulting, intimidating, threatening, shaming or demeaning another in a derogatory way. What if you said something about your employer that is negative? The consequence could be loss of a job,even though under the constitution you have the right to say it. What we say and how we say it is important. The question is: Is the consequence worth it? So, the next time you feel like calling a cop a jerk think about it......chomp chomp!!!!!!

Welcome to Chris's Carrots

Hi !!! Thank you for viewing my blog :) Each day you are welcome to come to my site and view the latest carrot I will be sharing with you. Your comments and feedback is greatly appreciated. OK let's "CHOMP ON A CARROT" Chris